Gifts to the principles
Giving is an art and a subject
We live in a big social groups, each person is isolated, almost every day for this or that exist with the interpersonal, including family, colleagues, friends, relatives, boss, subordinates, etc. While giving a unique social form, and, in some cases, gifts, and become the key to personal relationships or the indispensable means.
Giving is a pleasant thing, whether from the sender and the receiver's point of view should be so. To achieve this point is not an easy thing. Thousands of years passed down to the customs and giving reasonable knowledge, and gradually formed a unique gift art, has established the rules for who, what, how to send, have principle, can not be blind, hu, excessive. It includes a gift form, the purpose of giving gifts, gift, the opportunity and accepting gifts and so on a series of etiquette. Therefore, in principle, the gift of interpersonal can reduce unnecessary trouble, unnecessary embarrassment.
Sending people respect
Gifts are dedicated joy, at first, you should know each other really need
The gift is sent by the bidirectional, not only to the sender will, nor to oneself be fond of and abandon themselves to send gifts. If both parties can care for each other, more think, you wouldn't make too big mistake.
You can choose to accept the gifts. If you send the gifts you don't even like, how? From the side, do not accept the gift now receive outdated to others, or simply discard it, because the sender usually notice you use what he did send the gifts.
If you compare the rich, giving gifts to general friend also shoulds not be too high shots, lest make, can sometimes cause unnecessary loss of embarrassment, get the effect. The idea that some rich and send gifts may achieve better results.
If you buy gifts, gift to remember when the price tag of the gifts. At present, the label on the gift becomes only two: one is the information transmission, "our friendship is worth", another is, "look! The next to give me back the same gift." price While these information, can put all the gifts are playing shatter! In addition, no matter how the best gift itself value, or to use paper wrapped up. Sometimes the attention of the slight place more can show the sender's mind.
In addition, considering accepting gifts in daily life can be applied in the gift you sent. For example, QiaoQianZhiXi friend, you are ready to send him a big picture first should consider to his house: so greatly under the picture?
Give gifts significance
Make a person surprizing accepting
Are all of the giver
Gifts are emotional carriers, for one, is because of ShiYin land upon the standard of social etiquette. Any gift giver of all say, or reward, special offers, or contact or emotional, etc. So for the choice of gift, also should conform to the standards and requirements for different to different conditions by the gift. Your choice of gift must correspond with your heart, and you think that recipients presents uncommon, feel valuable. Generally speaking, home to benefit for the poor, who has better, With exquisite and on for lovers, lover, lover, memorial is preferred, The friend, with interesting; For the old, with practical; For children, with special novel; For foreign guests, as well as beautiful.
Actually, the best gift should be based on other hobbies choice, rich meaning, thought, but not uncommon quality laughing group inside of the gift. So, choose gifts should consider when it's philosophical and artistic, interest, commemorative factors, ingenuity and do not fall convention.
Gifts to weight properly
Gifts are the common behavior, moderate is principle
Generally speaking, gift too light and not easily misunderstood as despised him, especially to calculate the intimate relationship, and if the ceremony to ask others too light and do things difficult, the possibility of success is almost zero. But, again, too expensive gifts will accept gifts are of bribery, especially to superiors and colleagues should pay attention. Except some love and courage of privilege, ordinary people will probably declined, Or even accept, will surely pay, or later to return on your gift giving, so not forced family consumption? If you refuse to take out money, and has already, can produce many useless to worry, just like ordinary said: "the money for SINS," why? Therefore, to each other to accept for scale, choose a suitable for the gift, light, it spend less money, money, and more.
Grasp the gifts
Every time a new gifts, need
The famous "teacher" to describe the most appropriate time gifts. Holidays, birthdays, wedding anniversary of such meaningful, or visit the sick, it is the best gift. Because these gifts can make when ShouLiZhe don't feel that natural landscape, and easy to accept. In western countries, Christmas is the most important festival. At Christmas, childlike children to receive all kinds of novel toys and cheerful, think this is Santa Claus for their gifts. Adults usually send some between books, stationery, chocolate, sugar or miniascape, etc. Visit with flowers, are sometimes give bonsai. Fragrant flowers bring spring breath, make patient obtain spiritual comfort.
Send friends, also often give promotional gifts. Gifts are usually flowers, fruits, cookies or books and magazines, etc. The gift card, shall be attached to him a safe journey.
The time interval gifts also is exquisite, have frequency